SOON TO BE EX WANTS TO FILE JOINTLY B/C HE DOESN'T WANT A BIG BILL-HE COLL. UNEMP. MOST OF YEAR/I DON'T WANT 2?

I HAD BEEN TAKING ADDITIONAL TAXES OUT OF MY PAYCHECK TO OFFSET OUR TAX BILL BUT IN DEC. HE DECIDED HE WANTED A DIVORCE. HE WOULDN'T GET A JOB UNLESS IT PAID $30 AN HOUR. I ALSO HAVE LOTS OF DEDUCTIONS SO I MIGHT GET A BIG REFUND IF WE FILE SEP. BUT THAT MEANS HE WILL HAVE TO PAY MORE