Aah, I really need some help/advice? Anything?

Have you always been with your mom by a court order,secondly-how old are you.These two will determine the outcome of your dilema of which parent to live with.If you are constantly arguing with your mom,how is time spent at your dad,s?Is the time at your dads home spent in arguements,if so how do you settle the problems there?If your dad is willing to move you in at his home,once "the shine" of the toys wears off there(trampoline,boat,lake)how will the living enviroment be?I am sure you will be better off at dad,s home,providing there is no verbal abusement going on there between your siblings,step-mom,dad and yourself.Words spoken are difficult to take back,be careful what you say where ever you choose to live.