Dream about a soiled wedding dress?

I dreamed my mother handed me a white wedding dress (i was not getting married in the dream)...i said thank you and took the dress from her...i was holding it with my left hand, looking at it, and i noticed that in the lining, inside was dirty, it had like pieces of looked like small pieces of a broom or grlike stuff -here and there and on the outside of the dress, it was dirty in certain spaces...so I took a hose and started washing it off....another dream, my cousin (who is pregnant) and I were at a funeral- a dual funeral -for her mother (who is deceased for about ten years now) and our grandmother (who is alive) my cousin looked back at me and i told her to wait on our grandmother, not to put her up there yet with the other casket...both caskets were open and i could see her mother and our grandmother too,.she agreed to wait and they did not put our grandmother's casket all the way at the front of the church... can someone who is gifted or knowledgable of dreams help me? thanks.